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[quote=Anonymous]My mom grew up in truly dire circumstances. She is damaged goods. She has always sided with others against her own family, and it sounds like that's what your mom is doing with this relative. It's a way to bond with others, to throw someone else to the wolves. I think this kind of reaction is based on serious, SERIOUS trauma and the person can't bond with anyone in a normal way. If she could, she'd have bonded with you AGAINST the outside world, and not be attempting to bond with others by sacrificing you. Sorry your mom sucks. Contact people directly so you don't have to rely on your mother to stay in touch.[/quote]
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