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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It bothers me that people respond with quick and fast moral recipes. Think about your situation. And the key is thinking here, not just acting. Maybe the coworker you are attracted to is something you need in your life in someway. Maybe not. Your relationship can take many fulfilling forms that are within your moral standards. Maybe not. Even just fantasizing could be a good thing for you. Any way. Think about things, about risk and consequences, but also think about what you need in your life. Think about things in the context of your whole life. [/quote]

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Think about your spouse’s life- is this what your spouse needs? What about your kids? The kids of your co-worker? How do they need this in their lives?

Cheaters are so selfish they only think about themselves and their lives.

Op, since this is so natural and unavoidable because we are human, go tell your spouse and kids that you are having these feelings. Let them know you are going to be in a new relationship with your co-worker and how incredibly attracted you are to them. Show them these messages and they will realize they are holding you back from happiness. You don’t need to hide your emotions and feelings because it’s normal to want to have a spouse and lover. [/quote]

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