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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand.  Are you upset because now you cannot communicate with her, because she blocked you; or is it because being blocked is supposed to be taken as an insult?

Being blocked is so trivial.  You can block and un block on a whim.  It doesn't really actually do anything to you except it prevents you from communicating with her when she prefers you don't.

Why do you feel you should be able to communicate with someone against their will, and why would you want to?

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Op here. I am upset because I cannot have a peaceful relationship with my sister. Of course I am hurt and embarassed that she cussed me out and then announced I was dead to her and that she blocked me publicly. I am upset that none of my other siblings, including the one I was defending, reached out to me or responded to her abusive texts. It has been a few days and I feel sad and relieved. [/quote]

Yes you can. Your entire sibling group is far too enmeshed with each other.  You are not owning your part of this dysfunctional relationship.  You said none of the other siblings came to your defense.  You portray yourself as the hero/victim.  I am sure the situation is more nuanced. You are way too reactive and sound like a drama queen.

You are over stimulating your brain with little bleeps and boops on a screen.  You are getting endorphin hits like a trained mynah bird pecking for treats in a psychologists experiment.

None of it is real.  It's all in your head.  Turn off your darn phone for a while and quit it with the mental masturbation.[/quote]
While I appreciate tough love, you missed thatbI put all the above out there...in different words. To wit: dysfunctional childhood, I'm obviously not okay because I participated, I'm in therapy, I feel humiliated, etc etc. You are correct that it's more nuanced, but you have the gist of it. I do not lack self awareness, I have been trying to change (and have improved) and I want a healthy relationship with my siblings. The difficulty is that I'm not enmeshed anymore, but I still love them and want them to love and accept me. FWIW, the group text hasn't been active since she wrote that she blocked me.[/quote]

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