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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you should say ok unless you happen to ge super good friends with the mom and it would sever that friendship

Fwiw DD started at a new school in 4th and I met a new mom and heard some awful stuff about the dad. There was a protective order for a while etc. I formed an opinion ahead of time. Then I met the Dad and he’s great with his kid, super social with other parents, brings the kid to parties if it’s his weekend etc. I don’t k is the true story so I just do my best to get on with both of them. [/quote]

Lady you never know what transpired in private. Many are good at masking. My ex could put on a father of the year show but he hit me and my kid repeatedly and screams insane abuse behind closed doors.[/quote]

So much this. Mine was an abusive alcoholic - screaming tantrums ranting and raving ,punched holes in the wall, threw plates and dishes around, took a large canvas picture off the wall and broke it over his knee while screaming nonsense, swore at and verbally abused our kids (when our son would cry, would tell him to stop being such a pathetic little p*ssy and so much more), drove drunk with the kids in the car. And so very much more- I could go on and on. He was careful to hide it very well and was very charming and social- you never in a million years would’ve guessed what was happening behind closed doors. Successful professional career too. Is a dentist and did procedures on patients on while still drunk from the night before, which I didn’t realize until later on. Never got caught, his patients love him. Serious stuff.

Be careful what you assume. [/quote]

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