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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why have your young adults live in the US if you’re culturally unwilling to have them take care of their own clothes? That kind of domestic employee is rare in the US not least because it’s seen as shameful. [/quote] Is it shameful to have someone come and clean once a week, just so things are somewhat clean?[/quote] Of course not. Housekeepers/cleaners are very common even for young adults. All my cleaners/housekeepers have tidied up as necessary as part of their job. If it takes them longer to do this, you pay them for the extra time. [/quote] That might be what we have to do. Or they are just going through that Gen Z "Prince/princess" stage where they are self-centered douche bags. DS is also definitely not on anxiety meds and he needs to be on them. They actually "cleaned" before I came! What was the horror I did not see?[/quote] I would not assume they are "going through a phase", OP. This level of untidiness and disorganization is not typical of this generation. I have a tidy child and a messy child that have stayed that way into their thirties. The messy child has ADHD, anxiety and mild depression. [/quote]
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