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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mom of a lesbian high schooler: Sleepovers are fine as long as they’re in separate rooms. When dd had a girlfriend last year, we talked it over with gf’s parents and we all agreed that when the kids spent the night at either of our houses, they would be sleeping in different rooms. Did the same thing for ds when his gf from college visited. This is what’s worked best for us.

I’m sure someone will come here to question that and say they’re already having sex. I understand that. I also get to set up the rules and expectations in my house. Every parent gets to do what’s best for their house. [/quote]

You made consenting adults sleep in different rooms because you're afraid that they might have sex in your house? Are you going to do that with your son when he's married too? Or are married children allowed to have sex in your home? This reminds me of my grandparents and it all stems from weird puritanical fears of sex.[/quote]

NP, but my DH and I slept in separate rooms at our family's houses before we were married, yes (we actually waited until we were married to have sex, but we understood how it looked to share a bed).[/quote]

This is awesome to read.  Thanks for sharing.[/quote]

When my now DH and I were dating…we were living together (I was 26 and he was 32) and his parents made us sleep in separate rooms when we visited before we were married. Totally ridiculous but their house, their rules. [/quote]

That's funny. We were 34 and 29, and HER parents made us sleep in separate rooms because we were unmarried. I had to sleep in the basement, peeing in the utility sink during middle of the night bathroom visits, because the only bathroom available was up two flights of stairs. My mom (my dad was passed away) was fine with us sharing a bed.[/quote]

DH and I were put in different rooms when we were dating. He snuck into my room anyway and we had sex. The kids will find a way![/quote]

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