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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They are very similar to women despite denying it all the time.

The ones who think they know themselves well probably know themselves less than the ones who seem a bit closed off and reserved.

They have very strong emotions and cannot show them (don’t know how, after being brought up not to); they don’t really feel safe going in that direction with anyone, especially not a woman they are trying to seduce.

They are really fun and adventurous (well, some are). They live for the moment and check their worries at the door (well, some do) so when you’re out for dinner you can count on fun banter and not a therapy session. They are aware of the fact that their problems are not your problems. They are good team players that way.

They will help their friends and family whenever asked and will want to make you proud. But you gotta ask, they are not mind readers.

They are grateful for your time, for cooked food, for good sex, for your love. They might admit it about the food, but you can tell about the rest. :p

They take more risks (well, some do). They will also understand the men that live similarly and these types of men will stand by each other (for better or, often, for the worse :/) because the world wasn’t made for them.

Many do kind of travel in packs and like to identify leaders of their packs.

They like speed and things that have wheels and wings. (See risks and fun, above.)

They really just want to be accepted and not judged. That’s pretty much it.

That’s been my experience. I’ve had great luck not to come across predators, jerks (except from a distance) and the like. I have incredible guy friends and a DH who is my rock and our kids’ biggest hero.

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Well said

Alll that said, we live in a patriarchy where women are deprived their humanity and the ability to reach their potential. Just the other day women in ICELAND were on strike due to economic discrimination and sexual abuse. So, men are also all kinds of other, terrible things. I’ve just been able to skate around them and only tangentially suffer the consequences of a misogynistic world. A minority of insecure men spoil it for everyone else.[/quote][/quote]

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