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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not sure how to and if I should share my concern about passive aggressive and sometimes blatantly rude comments a girl made to our anxious (in therapy child). The other child is teacher’s pet and mom is a trustee. She will frequently ignore my child when in a group or make sarcastic comments. School expects kids to figure it out themselves and even if a concern is brought to the teacher, she just supports the other kid. Spouse thinks I should not be an umbrella parent and let our child figure it out while advising when specific issues are brought home so direct behind the scenes. [b] Specific Comments directed to my child may have abated ([/b]not sure yet as not enough time has elapsed since the last one) after I gave the verbiage to my kid to speak up once. Speaking up however, has led to this girl turning the other 2-3 girls against my child[b] so they are now ignoring so there are some tears almost daily due to being left out and being lonely[/b]. I don’t have a response to - mom why can’t everyone just be nice? My kid doesn’t use cuss words or gossip or talk about stuff I wouldn’t expect a 11 yr old to talk about but they do. I am told that not participating in dissing people means one is kiddish. Clearly we are the outliers….as most girls that age that i have met in school or during extracurricular activities are very “mature” and the parents quite “permissive”. Mean girls…with mean mamas …[/quote] They're ignoring your kid. I don't know what you expect the school to do. Your kid spoke up and the response from the other kids was to separate themselves. [/quote]
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