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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No 16 year old boy wants to talk to mommy about sex, nor does he appreciate getting the feeling that he’s being judged because mommy’s view that “life is more fulfilling in a relationship” might not be a view that he agrees with.

Mommy is overstepping and probably really weirding him out.  [/quote]

I’m not OP but if you truly feel this way that’s too bad for you and especially your son, if you have one.

My 15 year old talks to me about girls and how he feels all the time. He’s asked me when I lost my virginity. We have an open honest relationship and I firmly believe he’ll be a better adult for it. I wish my parents would’ve helped me navigate teen dating and relationships.

When he does have a girlfriend and I suspect they’re about be to be sexually active I’ll feel confident he will be better equipped to handle that stuff and even bring me into problems or concerns.

And if a teen doesn’t feel that life is better with close relationships then he’s wrong. Empirically wrong. Humans are social creatures and study after study shows close relationships are key to lifelong happiness and health. [/quote]

Ugh. NP. So you would have wanted your dad to sit and talk about sex with you, and share memories of kissing girls and losing his virginity? Sorry, but I have limits.

I do think sex is private and while it’s important to be open about SAFE sex, and talk about values..I think some moms don’t have boundaries and don’t respect their kid’s developing identity.  You don’t have to influence everything. How’s that? 
Ugh.[/quote]

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