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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here. I am divorced, and while I  am very happy to be divorced, I recommend waiting as long as you possibly can for your kids' sake unless there is abuse involved. You are so close, and a divorce at this time will be very destabilizing for them, more destabilizing than having unhappy parents or even an unstable parent.

It's just not worth causing the stress at this point in their lives, as well as the logistical and financial stress that this will bring to you, at this time. Just let them finish school if you can.

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I disagree. My parents divorced when I was 16 but were openly hostile to one another starting when I was about 9. They slept in separate rooms starting when I was 10/11. I know some people on here think that is normal but it’s actually not normal and I never had friends over because I was afraid they would find out and tell everyone. It was insufferable. My sister and I actually sat them down multiple times to ask them when they were divorcing. Your children are probably very aware of your issues.[/quote]

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