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[quote=Anonymous]OK, I read the whole thing before posting.  At first, I didn't really think much of it.  Mini-van really means nothing.  You mention the guy is in his mid-40s--he may be so used to driving a mini-van that it doesn't scream "married" or whatever to him anymore.  How old are you and your friend? Just wondering.  Also, if he borrowed it, whatever.  Ex could be married again, or could have more than one car, the whole car thing isn't really worrisome at all.  Here is what is:

Seven months into a relationship, and the first time he spent the night?  That's a long time in.
Seven months in, and she still has never seen his house?  Ever?  Or met his kids?

I've been divorced, and while I understand taking it slow, and not introducing your kids to everyone you date, by six or seven months in, you're really not a casual fling.  While he may not be comfortable having his kids meet her, it's the not spending the night at her house EVER or her EVER seeing his house that I think are huge red flags.

He's either married, or really not that interested in her.  I'm going to guess married, unfortunately.  It will be easy enough to look up.[/quote]

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