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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wondering. I have a clunker right now and I live with my mother to help her out after my narcissist dad left for a younger but less attractive woman. I've also just been laid off. I'd like a relationship but not even sure I'm dateable right now.[/quote]

Minimal, and only to the extent it shows some sort of red flag.  Clunker not relevant, living with mom not relevant if there is a reasonable explanation, house only relevant if there is something really odd or off-putting about it. Job not relevant with certain exceptions:  sex work is a material issue; if there is a major disconnect between your apparent nature and your job (e.g., you're a Ph.D. who is currently working fast food, you're pretty vague about what you do and keep an obviously irregular schedule, etc. etc.) it might raise some concerns.  Unemployment not an issue if there is a reasonable explanation like recently being laid off from a long term job.  Modest economic circumstances are not a disqualifier for most men, although obviously "you + way more money" is a more attractive package than "you + a lot of debt."[/quote]

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