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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Some previous posters do not seem to understand that someone who tends to overreacts and has anger management issues cannot be a good partner, because they significantly increase the levels of stress and anxiety in the household. Feeling gaslighted and blamed for no reason is not conducive to a healthy upbringing, even if his anger is not directed at the children. You have all my sympathies, OP. I have a husband like that, and it's been difficult. [/quote] Same. I started educating him on appropriate responses. It’s helped! He’s not a bad dude, but he’s on the spectrum and very fixed. He hooks on to these false notions, and it’s so hard to get him to see beyond. So instead of arguing tit for tat, I explain how to see things from other perspectives, how flexible thinking helps the family whereas rigidity hurts the family and so on. He isn’t happy in the moment but always apologizes later because he knows his weak spots. [/quote]
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