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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The college application process is an important learning opportunity in itself for the student. It’s a time to practice research, prioritization of interests, and self-marketing skills. High schoolers can learn a lot about themselves during it. They probably won’t start off with the best instincts, but can improve a lot in short order. Some guidance is useful, but it’s best to let them make as many decisions as possible, both so they can learn to be self-sufficient with important decision making and because you’ll just get blamed and resented if you don’t let them decide things and the result later turns out less than perfect. [/quote] +1 Well siaid. Let your child grow and be healthy. [/quote] +1 Also, imagine, if you guide/force your kid to select a school for any reason other than finances, and then whenever they struggle (hint: they will struggle at some point freshman year), they will blame you. When those struggles happen, it's much smoother if they are at a school they picked! Step back, trust them to become independent and let them fly[/quote]
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