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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A kid who focuses on overall fit rather than just name or ranking has a better chance of being happy. [/quote] "Fit" is a mystery until it works out or not. Name or rankings are more objective.[/quote] BS. Rankings are worthless. Fit is not a mystery. You visit, talk to current students, sit in a few classes, etc. For my kid, we toured 8 campuses over the summer. This was campus #7. Saw an immediate difference on this campus tour---I could just see it. Every student we saw/talked to just seemed similar to my kid---same quirkiness, academically driven but not a striver. Then when we visited in April (after admissions), I arranged a "private engineering tour" since the university didn't have any that day---basically posted to parent page and found a student who was willing to meet/give a tour/answer questions. This kid was amazing and very similar to my kid. Unknown to me, I had selected a female engineer who also spent much of their free time dancing (my kid is a serious dancer), so also got all the details and personal connections to the various groups on campus. That sold my kid---they basically got a campus tour from someone who is very similar to them---they can see themselves as a student there. Freshman year did not disappoint---my kid quickly found their group of friends both academically and socially. [/quote]
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