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[quote=Anonymous][quote] What would change if you divorced? You would still be doing everything yourself and making all the money.[/quote] Someone always comes on these threads to say this, and I always wonder if it’s the same person that walks around the house leaving a trail of dirty dishes. How is it not obvious? What would change is that she would clean the house, and it would stay clean. She wouldn’t be picking up cereal bowls from beside the bed. She wouldn’t be living some with someone who is actively watching her spin her wheels while he sits on the couch scrolling on his phone. She would have a peaceful home with some control over her environment. Would she be single? Yes. And likely have to negotiate custody? Yes. For many women, that’s preferable, and that should explain how intolerable her current situation is. She’s already working and outearning her husband. I swear, the absence of expectations of men is appalling.[/quote]
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