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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm in a one way DADT. it's fine but not what I expected when I got married. Did a lot of  therapy, both couples and individual. I find myself constantly redrawing agreed-upon boundaries, which is annoying. [/quote]

Are you the person with the pass? What are examples of boundary redrawing? Do you think the arrangement has improved your marriage?[/quote]

Yes I'm the person with the pass. Boundaries include don't ask me what I did last night or who I hung out with; I have plans and no sort you can't come along;  things like that.

[b]The arrangement keeps us married because i certainly did not expect 0% intimacy with my spouse after my wedding night! [/b][/quote]

Right there with you. These threads tend to be dominated by guys looking to screw anything that moves, but in my experience, there are a not insignificant number of women who have DADT situations. I've never even taken advantage of that tacit agreement, but I also haven't had sex in 5 years. If I did?  Or just kissed someone and had a night out? DADT. [/quote]

You sound like someone who should be taking advantage of this opportunity, so what stops you?[/quote]

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