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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you unable to do it or is it just that you disapprove of the surgery?

Maybe the increased self-confidence will help her land a partner and they can be the one to take care of her after the next surgery. [/quote]
I don’t disapprove of the surgery but I don’t like how aggressive they were in getting a down payment not giving her time to process what needs to be done. I also don’t have 6 weeks of my life to at minimum: sponge bath her, give meds to, clean her surgical drains and bandages, wrap in compression garments, meal prep, care for her cat that gets medications, clean her apartment etc. I told her we should consider a post surgery at home nurse and house keeper but she didn’t look into that. [/quote]

She’s not incapacitated at that time, even based on your complaint. She can’t lift anything. She’s on light duties and should be able to care for her drains and dressings, barring complications that would need medical intervention anyway.

You’re irritated by how aggressive the practice was, but you say you don’t disapprove of the surgery. Even if they weren’t aggressive, she will need help afterwards. So which is it? 
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