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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't imagine this is new behavior. My guess is that OP has known all along that this is the same person she married and decided to have a child with.  Somehow she thought she'd inspire him or he'd eventually get bored with the video games or some magic would transform him into a real man, not some lazy teenager. What kills me is the shock, anger and frustration.

OP-YOU CHOSE HIM![/quote]

this. [b]men are not projects[/b]. op is a loser mom.[/quote]

But women think they are.  "he will change after we get married" - famous last words.[/quote]

OP, this seems harsh but I think there is an important lesson embedded in it. If your DH has not changed, it will take a BIG CHANGE to shift the dynamics of the relationship. You've taught him how to treat you. I say, stop doing everything for him. Cook and clean your own things. Stop washing his clothes and leave his spaces a mess. When he gets sick of it, renegotiate. [/quote]

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