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[quote=Anonymous]I'd spend some time unpacking these thoughts. Is a woman's main value based on her looks? Can you be a good mother if you are fat, with melasma and eye bags? Does that have value? Motherhood causes big shifts for many. For some, it's too far into selfless martyrdom, for others it's not far enough into selflessness. I think modern mothers are concerned about keeping the pieces of themselves together after becoming mothers. Often this takes the investment of an excellent partner in child rearing. There is no once size fits all answer to what is right. But I would never choose my pre-pregnancy body/face over my children. Ever.[/quote]
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