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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, there's a lot of research showing that having even *one* friend matters hugely for well-being.  He doesn't need a group or a ton of friends - just one will make a lot of difference.  From there, he could add a few if he wants.

I say this because for a kid with social anxiety, making friends in a group setting is hell.  Also because putting him in a group isn't necessary to help him.

How was he with friends when he was younger?  Are there any he might reconnect with?  Could school admin or teachers be helpful in connecting him with someone?  Is there anyone in his classes he feels is more approachable?  Again, start small.  The suggestions for Scouts and sports and theater are well-intentioned, but for a socially anxious kid who is starting to identify as a loner, he may well feel even more lonely if forced to be with a group.  [/quote]

I believe this.  I was always a "one friend" kind of person in high school and never felt lonely at all.  Looking back, I hardly ever saw other kids (besides my one friend) outside of school but I have no recollection of ever feeling lonely.  [/quote]

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