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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Husband sucks but staying together for the kids. What are your self preservation strategies? No abuse, drugs or cheating involved. Just very different worldview and communication styles. We have tried counseling and we will do it again but I have little hope. I'm also not interested in breaking up the family unit so divorce is not an option right now. Kids are 10 and 13[/quote] It’s sad that you would model a dysfunctional relationship for your children. That’s not really something “for the kids.” There are worse things than divorce. If you genuinely can’t fix it, divorce might be better for this kids in the longer term.[/quote] The only thing kids hate more than divorce is having to deal with moms new boyfriend playing dad and dad’s new girlfriend trying to be their cool friend. I guarantee kids would much rather have your “roommate model of marriage” than deal with stepparents and step sibling drama. [/quote]
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