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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A man I started dating would text me tickets prices for a show we consider. Casually, like “tickets chat $X and $Y for drinks, so give it a thought”.   First, I would split but not that early in a relationship as we are not exclusive. I see him active on OLD and so I am. Second, it’s a turn off for me romantically as I’m at point of my career and life where this price is very low and not worthy discussing. I just pay when I invite my girlfriends. I probably make more than him, but he’s high level in his career as well and certainly has better pension and medical insurance. I work longer hours.

Sexual attraction is there, he’s very handsome. But  Im not feeling romantic about him, it’s just a mental turn off that doesn’t allow relationship to grow. [b]Shall I offer him to be a FWB[/b], and both keep looking ? Explain why or just say I’m not feeling that ? [/quote]
Why on earth would you have sex with a cheap-o who you don’t even like? You may make a lot of money but your self-worth seems to be in the dumps.[/quote] Because she's sexually attracted to him.  I think this is a good option.  If both parties are on board a FWB situation can be great. [/quote]

Not sure why she would be on board with FWB since she voices suspicions he's seeing younger women, she says she knows he's still active on OLD, and she herself isn't having sex with anyone else. She wants more even though she says she doesn't have romantic feelings. She is  eventually going to be jealous in ways that do not make FWB work for long. Needs to move on from this guy and find an actual relationship instead of giving him FWB when that's all it'll be for him but not for her, based on the fact she's already insecure about other women. [/quote]

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