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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Part of the “progressive decline” is when people start using wheelchairs and soon cannot get anywhere without one, followed not long after by needing help with transfers, etc.

[b]“Someone has to be next to him.”  No they don’t. [/b]He probably wishes they’d leave him alone. He knows he might fall.  Offer options. Let him make his own choices. [/quote]

They actually do.

Recently, my dad decided to use his cane instead of the portable wheelchair when mom took them to Walmart. I was at work and didn't know he was going to do that. Yep, he ended up on the floor of Walmart. I was an hour away at work. We have very nice EMT's where we live, whom we see regularly because dad doesn't 'want' to use a wheelchair.

BTW, progressive decline isn't caused by using a wheelchair-he needs a wheelchair [i]because [/i]he has progressive decline.[/quote]

It’s really both, that’s what makes it so tough for everyone.

It’s stressful, you have to find a way to detach a little bit and accept that he’s still in charge of his own life and may end up with a broken hip. That’s not your fault. If he starts using a wheel chair, he might end up with a broken hip from transferring. Bad stuff is going to happen, you’re going to have to roll with it a bit more. [/quote]

Ok, I'll call you to come pick him up off the ground. [/quote]

People here are SO clueless PP. Now that the crap has hit the fan in my own family after years of warning, I'm getting "how could we have foreseen this?" Unreal.[/quote]

PP here-Yes! And it affects more than just the elderly person. When they end up at the hospital due to a fall, who gets called to come? And don't forget to bring your POA paperwork, you need it! And who has to take FMLA? Thank goodness for FMLA is all I can say. But-they don't 'want' to use a wheelchair.[/quote]

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