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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Alright I'll be the outlier here. I'm with you, OP. I would not feel good about my husband wanting to attend the funeral of his ex-girlfriend from 25 years ago - especially not comfortable about him going to the trouble and expense of traveling to another city. Feels wrong to me. I have ex boyfriends from 25 years ago with whom I haven't stayed in touch. Some were intense relationships. Would not travel for their funeral.

Not saying there's anything suspicious about this. I'm just saying I relate to how you feel. I would be put out if my husband told me he wanted to attend his ex-girlfriend's funeral out of town.[/quote]

Were those ex-boyfriends part of friend groups that are still in touch? Yes or no.

"One-off"/insular boyfriends are different from boyfriends who are part of active friend groups, like college friend groups. You do get that, yes?[/quote]

No.

I still feel that even if they were, I would not feel inclined to travel to attend the funeral of an ex-boyfriend who'd cheated on me. Nor would I be happy or understand my husband in OP's situation.[/quote]

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