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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are filling for divorce and it will be amicable. However for financial reasons and for our kids as well we have decided to still live in the same house. I will be sleeping in a room downstairs and DW in a room upstairs.  And we further both agree we will have separate lives outside the home and will not introduce our new partners to our kids. Our kids turn 18 in 7 years and at that point we have decided that we will sell the house and go our separate ways.

I know this is a very unusual arrangement and want to hears folks’ experience, knowledge, opinion about such an arrangement. [/quote]
You can't rent a one bedroom nearby and do a birdnesting divorce? Seven years, lol.[/quote]

Nesting is annoying and we haven't even been doing it for a year.

I cannot imagine committing to seven years of it. [/quote]

It's good for kids though. Shuttling back and forth has a lot of downsides that they are even less equipped to cope with and 2 households drain a lot of funds. [/quote]

Yup. Doing it for them. We know we can roll with it better than they can. [/quote]

I am the poster who said we did the living in the house after divorce for two years. Ironically, our kids both really like having two houses and ask the parents are the ones who mind the switching back-and-forth. They actually like having two houses. We don’t like switching their stuff because they like to move more stuff than most parents would let them move. It’s ironic that we thought it would bother them but it doesn’t bother them at all but it really does bother us—the parents. It would just be easier off all their stuff was in one place and they’re routines were the same.[/quote]

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