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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We did it for two years. Our divorce papers came during COVID lockdown. The plan was for me to buy in spring 2020. I wasn't going anywhere with uncertainty with work and school. I moved in spring 2022.

It was fine. It was easier than being married because we were no longer married. We were living separate lives almost the entire marriage. We were sexless 7 out of 10 years total.

We never brought anyone to the house. I don't know what he did. He did not know what I did.

It has now been almost 20 months since I bought a house. Two houses is not working. It is too difficult with demanding jobs and kid activities. We have 10 years left of coparenting. We are now considering nesting for 3 years and then revisiting separate houses again.

We divorced due to many reasons: no shared goals, financial abuse, emotional abuse, total incompatability. But we are both logical people, there is no family nearby and we have to raise these kids. I won't speak to him after they go to college. Until then, I have to deal. We think nesting will be better for everyone. We think we will speak less. We have to talk more now divorced than when we were married due to kid logistics. Kids in one house and us rotating will be easier for us. We would not know this until we had separate houses, which we do now. Kid logistics are easier when kids are in one house and even easier when parents are in both houses.

I think your situation can work if you are like me and my ex.

We did not have issues living in the same house divorced. I could not be married to the guy. [/quote]

Curious - how did the financial abuse shift after divorce but still sharing household finances?   
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