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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Nothing really scandalous, just a vent. I was good friends with a couple, met them at the same time. As our kids grew I ended up talking to the wife less. Her husband and I are both super extroverts (the wife and I would joke about how we sometimes just needed her husband to stfu). He at some point ended up cheating on his wife and told me. I told him he had 24 hours to tell her before I did.

Well he told her and since then she won’t let him talk to any women, including me.  They were both good friends and now I barely talk to either. He’s not at all my type (I know what some of you are thinking) but I liked talking to him because he was like a big brother to me and would give good parenting advice.

Anyway, not looking for advice just venting because this annoyed me today. [/quote]

[b]Whether he's your type or not is not relevant. The issue here is that her husband had very poor boundaries with one woman, and it is now hard for his wife to trust him with other women. Even him disclosing his cheating to you demonstrates an inappropriate boundary with a woman - he should have told his wife and not you.[/b] [/quote]

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