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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you are jumping to conclusions.  He didn’t do anything to conclude he wants, “ More than a professional relationship.”   This boss and job doesn’t sound compatible for you.  His pulling back the potential offer because of you pushing back would be a deal breaker. I would let him know that I want to be taken out of the running. He sounds OVERWHELMING.[/quote]

OP here.  There were things that crossed the line.   [/quote]

Then why didn’t you include these in your original post? It’s not like you were concerned with brevity.[/quote]

Because I was concerned that people would get some sick thrill out of hearing that.  This has been distressing enough for me. 
I’m thinking most people replying here are not women.[/quote]

No, most people responding likely [i]are[/i] women, and what you’ve described is a big nothingburger compared to what some of us have experienced.[/quote]

Comments like this are exactly why repeat “me too” offenders get away with it for years. Not OP but you are totally gaslighting. Just because you’ve had it worse doesn’t make it okay.

OP, it may have been inappropriate or just a case of poor boundaries. Regardless, all of the details should have been clearly communicated in advance and it made you uncomfortable. I’m sorry your dream job turned out not to be.[/quote]

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