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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's hard to know if the guy is socially inept, on the spectrum, or just unprofessional and all mixed with your rather over sensitively. [/quote]

+1. OP isn't very good at describing all this in a cohesive, persuasive narrative with evidence. I doubt this will get very far if she goes to HR. Not worth the effort IMO, but, hard to tell what OP's endgame is.[/quote]

OP here.  I’m not sure what my endgame is either.  Perhaps to just let someone know that this happened? Probably why I posted on DCUM.  I feel like I need to talk about it. For those of you saying this isn’t my dream job, you have absolutely no idea what you’re talking about. Every single bit of this job is exactly what I have been waiting for. The only roadblock is this man that should not be in a position of power. The job is a dream; he is a nightmare.
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I think you know that going to HR is not going to get him fired and you hired. If every aspect of this job is your dream job, dealing with him may be worth it. Only you can decide that. I do think that sharing transportation and one-on-one lunch meetings are something that happens a lot in academia. Relationship building is important. If you are generally uncomfortable being alone with any man, it may not be the job for you.[/quote]

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