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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The responses on this thread are bonkers.  Nowhere did OP say she was enraged at her husband or planning to rip him a new one.  She said she's crushed and let down -- totally reasonable and appropriate in this case.

Sending you big hugs, OP.  I hope your husband will be home soon, will apologize for his mistake, and you two can proceed with your united front.  [/quote]

Eh, "crushed" at him is an overreaction too. He's away from her and dealing with a death in his family. He did one dumb thing likely while distracted by, well, see: Death in his family and lots of people around him. OP seems extremely invested in being "crushed" as you call it or angry as it appears to others of us. She also said he's had texts from her mom before this and has never responded, yet the one time he, under stress, makes a mistake, she's spiraling that he doesn't have her back. If she feels actually endangered by her mom knowing where she is, she should go away for a few days but she also should be getting a restraining order if she is THAT level of scared of mom. I get it, she is an abuse victim, but being this level of crushed at DH feels like it's displaced anger that belongs on her mom, not her DH. If OP can't exercise more judgement about where her anger and "crushed" feelngs really lie, her life with her DH and any future child is going to be ruled by her unresolved emotions over her terrible mom. [/quote]

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