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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Aren’t most men like this?  I feel like I deal with this at work all of the time.  
You have to give men some way to save face when they make a mistake.  They know they screwed up.  You really don’t have to hammer it in.  Once it comes to light, you just keep doing your thing and let him figure out how to fix it.

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I have a really hard time with this at work too. How do you deal with it? How do you help them save face in this scenario? You say something like "no worries" and then pick it up yourself and handle the situation? I am still learning.[/quote]

I don’t really say anything, and I don’t pick it up myself.  
I just kind of look at the thing that they missed and let them amend their plan for the day.

Like OP could have said:  
“Did you get the cake?”
 Her husband says, “no.”  
She says, “oh, ok.”  
Then a few minutes later, he says, “I will get the cake and meet you at the party.”  
She says, “oh, thank you.  That’s a great idea.”  
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What happens in the 90% of cases where he doesn't volunteer to get the cake? 
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