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[quote=Anonymous]It depends on who is doing the 'blaming". Society in general certainly judges the APs, which I guess is a form of blame. I don't think they are blameless in this way. Yet from the POV of the cheated-on spouse, it is probably healthier to focus on the marrige/healing/moving on than 'blame' the AP. Because you cannot control anything about that person and it is not worth the emotional energy. The only caveat here is if the AP is a person with whom the cheated-on spouse already had a relationship. In that case, there is additional processing to be done towards the AP.[/quote]
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