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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The root of your child's disagreeable behavior lies in his early childhood and in inherited traits. The foundation of a lifelong harmonious connection with a child is laid during babyhood. Many children feel abandoned when their mother goes back to work too soon, and this is when their behavior issues start. I have found the book Being There by Erica Komisar extremely helpful: https://www.amazon.com/Being-There-Prioritizing-Motherhood-Matters/dp/0143109294/ref=sr_1_fkmr0_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1500049424&sr=8-1-fkmr0&keywords=erika+komisar Good luck![/quote] Just saw an interesting interview with Komisar that caught my attention. Perhaps there’s a good reason why the first three years are “The Foundational Years”. We do know babies and toddlers require stability, competence and love. Very few babysitters or daycares provide all three. But extended family members often can. After all, what sitter is going to love your child as much as Grandma does? If neither parent is willing or able to be primary caregiver, the next best person might be a relative or a long-term trusted best friend. [/quote]
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