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[quote=Anonymous]In dyfunctional families there is scapegoating and there is difficulty accepting another person into family system, unless it's a baby.The more dysfunctional, the more likely it is that is the person who marries in sets the boundary, that person will be scapegoated and blamed for corrupting their own. The spouse who their blood relative likely knows the level of crazy and is used to it. It's not just setting the boundary, he/she has to say "No this is not Larla telling me what to do. We BOTH want this."[/quote]
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