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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My friend divorced at 37 and met a wonderful man at 38 and married at 39. It is not too late.

You may need to lower your standards.[/quote]

Please do not lower your standards, assuming they are realistic.  Never a good idea to get married and to accept less than what feels good.  [/quote]
dp.. "Lower standards" might mean different things to different people.

Do you really need for him to have  a great body? A full head of hair?  The right color eyes or hair?  I know women who have these kinds of standards, and it's why they have such a tough time finding men to marry.  Yes,  you need to feel some kind of attraction to him, but if you need all these superficial things to want to have sex with him, then you are going to have a tough time finding that whole package: looks, finances, personality, and generally just got his sh1t together.  There just aren't that many men out there that's "high value" like this.

DH has a good personality, got his sh1t together, is ok attractive.  He has not a great body; never has, and he's not super manly.  He may not be my fantasy man, but, he's been a good husband and father.

I dated guys who were better looking, better shape, better in bed.. but they would not have made me a good partner.[/quote]

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