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[quote=Anonymous]I met my DH when I was 36 and within 6 years we are married with 2 kids. There are lots of challenges with fertility around 40, but we were very lucky. You may want to research freezing your eggs if your own biological children are that important to you. That said, be cautious about lowering your standards. After hearing that advice from every corner I did what I thought was reevaluating and reprioritizing what I wanted. In retrospect, I ended up overlooking some red flags. Major regrets there. So sure, think about what you really want, but don’t let go of too much. Talking to a therapist might help you work through some of this. One of my closest friends with a meh dating history learned a lot about herself in therapy and ended up marrying someone she probably wouldn’t have previously, but in a very good way. Like she was repeating unhealthy patterns and learned to recognize and avoid them. I kinda wish I’d taken that approach. [/quote]
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