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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is she not used to being gay or something [/quote]

We both have only kissed women. She said she wants to do more though. I messed up. [/quote]

If you messed up, then she messed up too. You were following her cues. I think she wants to date women in theory more than in practice, and it’s much easier to flirt over text than in-person. I imagine she really likes you and finds you attractive - you are the kind of woman she would want to date, if she actually wanted to date women.

You didn’t mess up.[/quote]

I agree.

Maybe she isn't ready, or maybe the vibe isn't there. I think you should date some other people because first it will be she's too nervous for sex, and then she won't want to come out etc etc etc. Sounds like too much trouble, honestly. [/quote]

+1 Don't put all your eggs in this basket. If something more ends up happening with this woman, yay. If not, perhaps you can be great friends. Either way, don't forget that you are new to being gay - and you deserve to really go explore what this is going to look like for you. Life is too short to divorce a man and then end up in a complicated possibly s**less relationship with someone else right away.[/quote]

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