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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t have kids; if I did, my answer would be different.

I paddleboard and am presently working toward 100 miles this year. I live on the ocean so my paddle time is largely dictated by tide schedules, wind, etc. My boyfriend is supportive, but I’m constantly going out for 2-3 hours at odd/disruptive times of the day. Boyfriend has recently started booking tee times for my paddle times (I usually know my plans 3 days in advance), which takes a little longer than my paddles, but also gives me time to stop for coffee on the way home, or hop in the shower, or just have a few minutes at home alone.

Your boyfriend bicycling at 6am on the weekend is far from an issue. You don’t have kids together that he’s abandoning for hours. It’s a consistent early morning activity that you can plan around - ie don’t plan to start something at 8am when you know he’s all yours at 10am.

Leave it alone, let him enjoy it. It’s a healthy outlet that he could just as easily replace with an unhealthy one.[/quote]

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