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Reply to "Is DH selfish, or am I projecting?"
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[quote=Anonymous]The OP asked the exact right question in her subject line and was halfway there.... OP, yes you are projecting. This particular situation is not something to be upset about. As people said, going to the convention and missing your work dinner is entirely reasonable. BUT, it reveals that you are beginning to resent all of the time he is spending on himself. At some point in the next week, entirely separate from this event, talk to him in broad sense about how everything is going. See if his stress has eased, tell him that you need a little more of his time back, etc. Bottom line: you shouldn't be upset and your DH is not being selfish in this instance. But you should have a conversation about changing the overall dynamic moving forward.[/quote]
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