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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He doesn’t get to just not help pay camp and childcare expenses. He is also a parent and child support alone is a joke in most states. If you truly have the kids 99% of the week, your child support should be adjusted accordingly. For example, in VA there are two formulas; one for most custody splits and one in situations where one parent has fewer than 95 x 24 hour periods with their children. The parent with far less custody has to pay more.

I know lawyers are expensive but DO NOT let him steamroll you because you are afraid of having to pay a good lawyer. 
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+1 my sister was thrifty on the legal support during her divorce and paid for it dearly over the years. Invest some time and money here to make sure you turn over every leaf on what you and your kids will need and should expect. Don’t count on any amicable generosity later. One of her kids has expensive out-of-pocket medical needs and she is solely responsible even the ex makes 5x her salary. [/quote]

Who are these loser dead beats that don’t want to contribute to their child’s medical expenses? I’m trying to envision a world in which I would just not pay for stuff for my kids. I don’t care if DH cheated on me with an entire harem, I would still want the best for my children.

I’m sorry to you ladies and your kids dealing with these scummy dirt bags.[/quote]

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