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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have kids and I have a dog. I will not let my dog off leash in an area that's not specifically for dogs or is enclosed for dogs. Definitely not around a children't playground. No way. Never. I have a wheaten terrier who is good with kids. Still, I would never let him loose in a public place that's not fenced in just for dogs. I don't get the mindset of owners who do that. In the same vein, I get irritated when people let their kids run around in enclosed dog parks. But, that's not too common.[/quote] I appreciate this. I love dogs but my kid is TERRIFIED of them. We don't know why, we are working on it. I have come to really resent people who let dogs off leash in non-designated areas because if a dog comes bounding up to my kid, even if the dog is friendly and not dangerous, she will lose it. It's terrifying to her. I do get it on some level because she's still small and a lot of dogs are bigger than her (though she is also terrified of small dogs, so it's not just this). I am careful not to take my kid to parks with a ton of dogs (even if people are good at keeping them on leash, it's too much of her) and would of course never take her to an actual dog park. So it makes me mad when people let their dogs off leash on parks with clearly signed restrictions on this. We also have a number of playgrounds near us where dogs are not allowed and it's clearly signed and it makes me really angry when people bring their dogs to these places, even on a leash. These are some of the few places in our neighborhood where we can feel confident there won't be dogs. When people break those rules, it just makes it even harder for us. And all of this is making it tougher to acclimate our kid to dogs, and maybe even get one some day. The more she encounters off-leash dogs, or dogs on playgrounds, the harder it is to get her to understand that dogs can be safe and even wonderful. Please do not let your dog off leash in places where that is not allowed, and do not take your dog to schools/playgrounds where they aren't allowed. No matter how friendly and harmless they are. You cannot assume that everyone is excited to have a dog come up right up to them, for some people (especially some kids) that is terrifying.[/quote] My dog is terrified of kids so I would appriecate all kids to not come running at us waving their arms and screaming to pet my dog. And btw, I will walk m dog in the neighborhood past a playground if need be.[/quote] (1) Literally never seen a kid run up to a dog screaming and waving their arms. If that happens, it is not a common occurrence. Whereas I see unleashed dogs bounding up to strangers or other dogs all the time, that's a normal dog behavior. (2) No one said you couldn't walk your dog past a playground. They are saying don't bring your dog onto a playground, especially not one with signs posted clearly saying dogs are not allowed. All the playgrounds in my neighborhood have fences and gates, so if there is a dog on the playground, it means their owner walked right past the "no dogs" sign to get there. D**k move.[/quote] Kids run up to pet unknown dogs all the time. It’s a real issue. [/quote]
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