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[quote=Anonymous] What happens when your spouse is injured or ill, and the dog needs to be fed and pee and poo outside? What happens if the dog has a life or death emergency and your spouse is not there to drive him to the vet ER? My husband did not want a dog, and told the kids and I that he wouldn't lift a finger for it. But in the 5 years we've had the dog, I've broken my toe, had Covid and had a difficult miscarriage. My husband HAD to step up, unless he wanted the dog to vomit of hunger (which he does, and then someone has to clean up), or have accidents in the house. And of course our money is joint money, so he pays for the dog's needs just as much as I do, which he's fine with. In 5 years, he's actually become fond of the dog, even though he'd never admit it. So can you understand that there will be times in this dog's life when you will have to undertake dog-related tasks? And that any money spent on this dog is actually joint money, unless you completely separate your accounts? If you understand that, then I think such an agreement, whether verbal or written, is workable. [/quote]
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