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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who carries the insurance?  Can you tell him that your insurance requires a yearly visit with blood work?  (my insurance started offering a reduced rate if we had a yearly workup)

You can only do so much.  If it something major, he will eventually end up in the hospital.  I would focus on what you can control.  Make sure that you have all the necessary documents in order (will, POA, beneficiaries updated).  [/quote]

I would advise "you can only do so much" approach with an difficult elderly parent where eventually having it be too late and ending up on hospice with great pain meds seems far more pleasant than descending eventually to the final stages of dementia with no ability to walk, talk, use bathroom, feed self...having seen both. For someone far younger who has children who are not even adults, and a spouse he has many years to enjoy life with, I would keep trying different avenues-tell parents/get an old college friend involved, etc, etc so if the worst happened I know I tried it all. I see it different than say an addict where you eventually have to let them hit rock bottom. I assume this man is consumed with anxiety to the point of paralysis. Heck, I'd even find out if his doctor would prescrice a few xanex so he can take one and be able to discuss the situation better and than take the others the night before each doctor's appointment.[/quote]

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