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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Girl, I'd say something- that this is the name of a person who inflicted pain upon you and it's the one name you cannot hear without the pain coming up. (This IS the only name, right? [b]You get one veto). [/b] You sucked it up and were a martyr the first time. Being a martyr again- and for the rest of your life is not worth it. To those who suggest calling the child by some random nickname/made up name other than the legal name- this might work for some but is not done in our families so that would be off the table.[/quote] Umm no, the actual parents are the only people who get a veto. Trying to dictate to your daughter (who did nothing wrong in this scenario) that she can’t use the name she prefers for her child doesn’t equal not being a martyr, but is a great way to sour the relationship going forward. Op sounds wildly dramatic and needs to stop making this about her. It’s just a (admittedly common) name, get over it. [/quote]
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