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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that we have a similar situation, OP. I am much more conservative with retirement saving than my husband is. I think we need a certain amount to live a great life and he is ok with less money and just making do with what he has. Think: $8M vs $2M. Neither of us are really right or wrong but we come up against prioritizing issues like this where we just need to make a call. If you want to save your marriage then spend some money on this trip and also a financial counselor who can help you work on this stuff. I would say you should do the Dave Ramsey program but it’s not for everyone (I just ignore the religious stuff). [/quote]

No, this isn't about how conservative you are with retirement. OP's husband wants to spend on himself and his family, using OP and her family's money. OP's husband doesn't want to spend on the things that OP wants. Plus he wants OP to "pay him back" the $45K that he already spent so he can also have that money just for himself. [/quote]

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