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[quote=Anonymous]OP, please think about how you are talking about yourself and your worth. Of all the people you love in your life -- children, partner, friends, grandparents -- whomever it is that means so much to you -- do you love them for their achievements or who they are? That's how people feel about you. We may not be able to explain exactly why we like/love some people so much -- but it sure as he!! isn't because of their "achievements." Anecdote -- but one of my BF is what DCUM would call a dud. He dropped out of college and works in the gig economy. I adore him. He is so kind and positive, I just enjoy being around him and talking about music and stuff. No one cares what his 401k is.[/quote]
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