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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Take advantage of the open marriage and try and find someone you have an intense connection with to experience it. Yes, it’s a cake and eat it too scenario…but assuming you’re a mature adult who can be discreet and careful…which sounds like you and your spouse are…there’s no reason not too. Life is short and marriage is long. Emotional and sexual connection are like nature’s therapy. [/quote] OP, this is the kind of "just do it, and you'll find that intense connection!" open marriage proselytizing that goes on here. There is zero guarantee that you will be able to find what you seek, which you can't even truly describe yet, by stepping out. But posts like the one above just blissfully advocate it as if you'll so easily find what you seek. Do you really buy that, OP? If so, you're naive and not thinking. Get help for the decent marriage you have. You need to ask yourself tough questions, not just open up the marriage as a default setting because you and DH weren't willing to do hard work and treat "love" as a verb (as a much wiser PP put it). [/quote]
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