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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hosting it is not your responsibility. How many kids do you both have from other people??[/quote] I’m not sure why this matters but we both have 1 child each. We’re in our late 30’s and excited to add another baby to our blended family. [/quote] [b]Showers Are only for FIRST child [/b]delivered by you not first child of subsequent marriages.[/quote] +1[/quote] There is nothing tackier than judging a joyful, second-time bride for wearing white or--more on point for this thread--judging the existence of a party meant welcome new life into the world. Anyone who looks down on happiness in the name of etiquette has their own problems. [/quote] If anyone was looking down on happiness, you might have a point. But in this case people are ignoring etiquette to make the “guest of honor” miserable. In this case observing etiquette preserves the honorees happiness. If everyone else feels they want a party to be happy, they are free to leave OP happily out of it and throw whatever shindig they want. [/quote]
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