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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is the backstory though? 
My husband has adhd that wasn't diagnosed for years and he refuses treatment. It was really confusing to me how time didn't matter to him, no matter what. He never apologized, was actually angry I questioned him. It was always the traffic or someone else's fault. We were late to important things like a funeral, niece's birthday, etc. I learned to take my own vehicle when necessary.

He still doesn't leave the house until the time he is supposed to be at appointments. He will do things like start washing the car when we are already supposed to be on the road. We've been married over 30 years and raised children so we make it work but I always have to be the responsible one. When the kids had sports and other activities, we often had 2 vehicles there because I had all the necessary supplies and left on time with the kids. He showed up as the happy go lucky dad. [/quote]

This is my life! I’m glad to know I’m not alone…though my husband doesn’t have ADHD. 
It’s so hard to know how much is intentional. It will be the time we agreed to leave and I’ll be heading to the door when I hear him start to play guitar in the basement. Grrrrr…..[/quote]

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